I love you for right now..............

My grandparents were married for over 50 years....that is a strong marriage. It stood the test of time, through sickness and in health ‘til death did them part. It’s sad that not all marriages today can be so strong. People get married and they do not know what they step into. That strong husband-wife connection that got our grandparents through everything has been replaced with the "oh well, I'm tired of him/her". Then you have that one partner that does more that their 50% and the other partner taken more than they give. This instant gratification generation (Jesse James) mixing with the newer is better (Tiger Woods) generation is going to leave their children with more families to visit during holidays and the headache of the every other weekend scramble. Where is the love people?




I can talk for days about most men today not even knowing what being a real husband means. But this is all my opinions....LMAO I have heard of so many men no knowing what is means to be a man. What providing for your family means. What becoming the head of the household entails. The ones with mommy issues. Then there are woman who expect way too much from their husbands. The women who want mind readers and safe keepers. The women who were raised my strong single woman who find it hard to be submissive and let the man be the man. If you are not happy then make it better. Marriage is a vow but when the vow is tainted with lies and manipulation it just sucks... No I can not think of any phrase but "it sucks". Most of the time when you have a strong like minded partner that truly loves you for you, getting those pre-closet issues off your chest should be a piece of cake. But when you sweep those bones under the mat and bury that mat in the closet and thing no one is going to open that closet, you will be sadly mistaken. What most "hiders" do not understand is the longer you hide things, the worst you can hurt a person when the door finally opens and the door will open eventually. It ALWAYS OPENS. The person will have their eyes cover only for so long with the lies you feed them. But soon the true comes out.

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